The Brat & The Dom
A guided workshop-temple hybrid for brats, doms, testing, teasing, containment and chosen surrender
There is a part of us that does not surrender easily.
And there is a part of us that wants to hold what will not surrender.
The part that tests. The part that teases.
The part that asks: Are you really here? Can you hold me? What happens if I push?
And the part that answers. That stays present. That meets the resistance without collapsing, reacting or disappearing.
This is the dance between the brat and the dom.
And a brat is not someone being difficult for the sake of it.
The brat is the part of us that wants connection — deeply — but is wary, and tests before it trusts. It is the spark of resistance, play, provocation and edge that asks to be met with presence, clarity and grounded power. On the flip side, if you are not a brat, why do you not test? Not push the boundaries?
The dom is not someone who controls for the sake of it either.
The dom is the part of us that wants to hold space — steadily, consciously, without ego or force. The part that can stay present when pushed, and meet resistance with clarity rather than reaction.
When both are truly met — something else becomes possible.
Testing becomes connection. Resistance becomes chosen surrender. Control becomes trust.
This evening is an exploration of that doorway.
Not dominance and submission as fixed identities. Not gendered roles. Not performance. Not pretending.
The living, relational dance between power, play, containment, tenderness, authority, resistance and surrender.
Two parallel workshops
This evening runs as two simultaneous tracks — one for brats, one for doms. You choose your path when you book.
For the Brats — held by Joanna
This space is for those who feel the pull of their bratty, resistant, teasing, testing, playful or hard-to-surrender parts. Or paradoxically for those of you who are complicit, don't test or push back.
Together we'll explore what lives underneath brat energy — what it protects, what it wants, what it fears, and what it needs in order to soften.
This is not about being broken in or forced to submit.
It is about meeting the part of you that does not give in easily or that does what it is told — and discovering what becomes possible when that part is held with enough presence, clarity and care.
For the Doms — held by Roja
Roja is a professional BDSM femdom and brat tamer. She will hold a parallel space for those drawn to dominance, containment and grounded authority.
This space is for people curious about what it means to hold power consciously — not through ego, force or performance, but through presence, attunement, consent and responsibility.
You will explore how to meet brat energy without collapsing, reacting, overpowering or withdrawing.
Then we meet
After the separate workshops, both groups come together for guided relational exploration and temple practice.
This will be a held, structured, consent-based space. There will be invitations. There will be choice. There will be no pressure to do anything that does not feel right for you.
About this space
This is a non-binary space. All genders, bodies and identities are welcome.
This is also a non-penetrative space. The focus is not relating as performance — it is presence, power, play, nervous system, consent, relational intelligence and embodied exploration.
Is this for you?
This space is for people with previous experience in consent-based relating.
You don't need to be an expert — but this is NOT a beginner space for those completely new to boundaries, consent or relational exploration.
If you're unsure whether this is right for you, please reach out before booking.
3 December | 19:00–23:00Doors open 18:45. We begin at 19:00 sharp.
Tickets
Places are limited in each group. Please choose the track that's right for you — you cannot switch on the night. Early bird for first five of each brat and dom ticket.
🔴 Brat Ticket — for those exploring the brat archetype, resistance and chosen surrender
⚫ Dom Ticket — for those exploring dominance, containment and grounded power
Low-income & alternative exchange
I want this work to be as accessible as possible. If the full ticket price isn't workable right now, please get in touch before booking.
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